"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vonbock

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Went to to a party on July 4th at friends house. That friend, very good guy and I really respect. A girl went there, about a 6, but I was very interested in her. Chit chatted with her about 15-20 minutes, and got her number.
Now 2 days later, I meet my friend at get together at a restuarant. Lo and behold that girl is there along with other girls. I ask my friend which one he is after and he said he is trying for the girl I was talking too. He didn't know I was interested in getting to know her. I will back off but what is best way to handle this. I know it will always be bros before hos. Wait until he says that it didn't work out and then try for her? Or tell him that we both go after and let her pick the guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats, a tough one. I mean you could say I want her too. Execpt i'm already a step ahead of you. :rolleyes: Then, if he fails and you succeed he might be upset....
 

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its not that tricky, its actually kind of fun. first you make it seem like ur helping him get the girl by motivating him to make moves and having it be just a playful competition, then you make him look bland in comparison some way or another, all while telling him stuff like "i had her in my bed last night and she was sucking it so good"
 
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