I really like this one girl from school but we dont hang in the same circles so I dont know her she is really hot an i just found out she has a boyfriend but I cannot stop thinkin about meeting her I just dont know how.. Because I dont even know her I thought about getting a part time job where she works but thats too much work any ideas on how I can meet her an just be friends I still have a hard time walking up to girls an talking to them. I am working on being better at it tho.. Thanks for any ideas
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
stuck on one girl!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AnkleBreaker
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Its kinda bad to focus on one girl its alot easier when you Djing 5 chicks instead of one. But sumtimes you forget there names and thats kinda bad but you dont get oneitis.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BeLoSH
Don Juan
if your with more than girl at a time, say 3, you fell much less bothered about one not working out.
i do anyway
i do anyway