I really like this one girl from school but we dont hang in the same circles so I dont know her she is really hot an i just found out she has a boyfriend but I cannot stop thinkin about meeting her I just dont know how.. Because I dont even know her I thought about getting a part time job where she works but thats too much work any ideas on how I can meet her an just be friends I still have a hard time walking up to girls an talking to them. I am working on being better at it tho.. Thanks for any ideas
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
stuck on one girl!!!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AnkleBreaker
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Its kinda bad to focus on one girl its alot easier when you Djing 5 chicks instead of one. But sumtimes you forget there names and thats kinda bad but you dont get oneitis.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BeLoSH
Don Juan
if your with more than girl at a time, say 3, you fell much less bothered about one not working out.
i do anyway
i do anyway