I really like this one girl from school but we dont hang in the same circles so I dont know her she is really hot an i just found out she has a boyfriend but I cannot stop thinkin about meeting her I just dont know how.. Because I dont even know her I thought about getting a part time job where she works but thats too much work any ideas on how I can meet her an just be friends I still have a hard time walking up to girls an talking to them. I am working on being better at it tho.. Thanks for any ideas
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
stuck on one girl!!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AnkleBreaker
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Its kinda bad to focus on one girl its alot easier when you Djing 5 chicks instead of one. But sumtimes you forget there names and thats kinda bad but you dont get oneitis.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
I dont know what to say i made it a point not to focus on just one cause then your always thinking about her when in reality she hardly ever thinks about you.
Plus you get that social proof which actually works pretty well guys envy you and girls wanna know you. So i say talk to her friends or other girls around her and then she will be the one chasing you or not but hey never hurts to try.
If any of this made sense cool if it didnt well then cool.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BeLoSH
Don Juan
if your with more than girl at a time, say 3, you fell much less bothered about one not working out.
i do anyway
i do anyway