Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stuck in a rug

steve_erkle

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Hey guys. I'm in a little bit of a rut and need some help getting out of it. For the past month or so I've been really lazy and unmotivated. I've got goals for myself but I don't feel like putting any work into them, and when I do , it's alwayss half-assed. I hate lying around and doing nothing but I can't help it. What do I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Metaphysical

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you gotta figure out why you are feeling lazy in the first place

maybe you are making goals that are too tough.

make a goal to get your ass off the couch or the computer chair, and do it.
 

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I've been that way, too, in the past couple of months. however, it happens every year at this time. I am affected by the seasonal weather changes. Perhaps you are too?

Right now I have the furnace set at 72 and a bright lightbulb shining into my face. If I didn't do that I'd be in bed not able to get out.

Do your retinas/eyes ache? I forget the medical term for this. If so turn a light bulb on in front of where you sit. That always seems to help me.
 

It's-Me

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steve_erkle said:
Hey guys. I'm in a little bit of a rut and need some help getting out of it. For the past month or so I've been really lazy and unmotivated. I've got goals for myself but I don't feel like putting any work into them, and when I do , it's alwayss half-assed. I hate lying around and doing nothing but I can't help it. What do I do?
What can you do? Get off your lazy ass and go do something about it - complaining about it isn't going to get you anywhere and you need to have the willpower to do it.
 
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