"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stuck in a rug

steve_erkle

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Hey guys. I'm in a little bit of a rut and need some help getting out of it. For the past month or so I've been really lazy and unmotivated. I've got goals for myself but I don't feel like putting any work into them, and when I do , it's alwayss half-assed. I hate lying around and doing nothing but I can't help it. What do I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Metaphysical

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you gotta figure out why you are feeling lazy in the first place

maybe you are making goals that are too tough.

make a goal to get your ass off the couch or the computer chair, and do it.
 

LoneRanger

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I've been that way, too, in the past couple of months. however, it happens every year at this time. I am affected by the seasonal weather changes. Perhaps you are too?

Right now I have the furnace set at 72 and a bright lightbulb shining into my face. If I didn't do that I'd be in bed not able to get out.

Do your retinas/eyes ache? I forget the medical term for this. If so turn a light bulb on in front of where you sit. That always seems to help me.
 

It's-Me

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steve_erkle said:
Hey guys. I'm in a little bit of a rut and need some help getting out of it. For the past month or so I've been really lazy and unmotivated. I've got goals for myself but I don't feel like putting any work into them, and when I do , it's alwayss half-assed. I hate lying around and doing nothing but I can't help it. What do I do?
What can you do? Get off your lazy ass and go do something about it - complaining about it isn't going to get you anywhere and you need to have the willpower to do it.
 
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