"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stubborn Woman Predicts Her Own Death lol

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I'm sorry, but I always laugh sarcastically when I hear of women like this one in this story below. "I'm going to prove to the world just how independent and strong of a woman I am even though I will probably die anyway". This woman reminded me of Amelia Earhart who I also laugh at. What she tried to do was insane for the time (even though she had a male co-pilot which history never mentions). Back to the dame in the article below; She hiked 2600 miles across the USA and ski'd to the South Pole. Both of those were big achievements with moderate danger, why not stop while you are ahead lady? Why go kayaking down the Amazon River where you KNOW you will be robbed and killed by savage humans? Hasn't your ego been stroked enough by the other big things you did that were not as stupid? Dumb broad. She didn't deserve to die but I gotta laugh at her anyway.

http://nypost.com/2017/09/20/british-kayaker-killed-by-pirates-foretold-her-own-demise/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what the f...didnt any of her friends think to send her to liveleak..every other video is brazilian death.

RIP lady. shes got more balls then most guys...but less brains too either that or she had a death wish. Brutal death..they hit her twice with the shotty and chopped her up while still alive...fukkin devils man
 

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This woman reminded me of Amelia Earhart who I also laugh at. What she tried to do was insane for the time (even though she had a male co-pilot which history never mentions
I know this isn't the point, but Fred Noonan was along on Earhart's around the world trip as a navigator, not to fly the plane. In fact, although he was respected in his field, many blame his navigational errors for the loss of the plane. He had them quite off course on an earlier leg of their journey, but they didn't end up over the ocean in that case.

Amelia Earhart was the first woman to fly the Atlantic solo, and only the second person to do it (Charles Linbergh was the first). She was hoping to use the funds she got from her round the world flight to do scientific testing to further aviation, which she loved. She was no joke.

Flight back then was a risky venture, and it is a matter of debate how good of a pilot Earhart was. But there's no question she was a courageous woman. What happened to her (and Noonan) was a tragedy, even though they knew the risks involved. She was just as flawed a human as anyone else. I have a lot of respect for her.
 

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I'm not sure there's much difference between her, an admitted adrenaline junkie, who kept hitting the adrenaline pipe until it killed her, and an old school drug addict chasing the dragon until it kill him.

Except maybe one is considered heroic and inspirational, while the other is considered self-destructive and stupid.

The article also mentioned that she didn't start thrill seeking until after her father died.

Kind of a sad story.
 

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Obvious death wish. I mean surely it would be better to go in a group and surely you would be armed. Pirates are of course cowards they don't want to take anyone on who will shoot back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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