“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stubble woes

CaptFinnBad

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So never had this happen to me before. Dating this girl with super sensitive skin.

My stubble is wrecking her face. My facial hair suits me, I love it.

I asked her about her face because it looked sore she said it's irritated, made some excuse and played it off like no big deal.

Then admitted and me prodding her it's my facial hair but kissing me is so worth it.

I like here and want to see where it goes. I'm not prepared for her to surrender because of my facial hair.

Need advice how to soften it up?

Don't want to go clean shaven. I suppose if we end up probably together I would probably cut it off rather than see her in pain.

Want to explore options at the moment.


It's only stubble. I don't really put anything on it. Only mosturiser when I do my face.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have the same problem and it's happened with a few different women. Literally have to shave right before they come over.

I have sandpaper like stubble within a few hours of shaving...like I get 5 O'clock shadow at 11am haha

When I was younger, I worked in the restaurants and my Vice President who was a stickler for clean shaven faces on guys made me get razors to bring to work to shave in the bathroom halfway through my shift(no lie). Although I only did it when he was there which was like once a quarter

Nothing you can do other than try and shave as close as possible as to when you see her.
 

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I have the same problem and it's happened with a few different women. Literally have to shave right before they come over.

I have sandpaper like stubble within a few hours of shaving...like I get 5 O'clock shadow at 11am haha

When I was younger, I worked in the restaurants and my Vice President who was a stickler for clean shaven faces on guys made me get razors to bring to work to shave in the bathroom halfway through my shift(no lie). Although I only did it when he was there which was like once a quarter

Nothing you can do other than try and shave as close as possible as to when you see her.

I'm going to try some oil and different products first to see if I can soften it up.
 
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