"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does anybody else do this? I never lifted before this. Think it is an good program except deadlifts. I hate them lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I did stronglifts 5x5 back in he fall to help me break through a plateau. If this is your first time lifting it will definitely help you build a good base to work off of. just make sure you follow the routine exactly as it is described and eat good you will see results. The program got pretty boring towards the end cause your doing the same thing every other workout and doing squats every workout was kinda a b*tch but you just gotta plow through it. And dont worry about deadlifts, you only have to do one set and once you get used to them you'll be surprised how much you'll be able to do. Just don start too heavy with them.
 

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been doing it for 3 months

bigwuz said:
Does anybody else do this? I never lifted before this. Think it is an good program except deadlifts. I hate them lol
yup ive been doing it for 3 months and i haven't done the deadlifts
i did rows instead of deadlifts
anyway i got some pretty good results, def give it a try :cool:
 

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And what do you mean with results? Muscle mass or strength?
 

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Its pretty fun now but I am thinking about adding cardio like running on my off days I really hate running but think it will help with stamina an sex lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why skimp on deadlifts? Man up and do them. Deads are by far my favourite lift. There's no need to add cardio to it, yes your cardiovascular stamina will increase but it'll have little more effect; especially considering that you're probably going to not put much effort into it.
 

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DanZy said:
Why skimp on deadlifts? Man up and do them. Deads are by far my favourite lift. There's no need to add cardio to it, yes your cardiovascular stamina will increase but it'll have little more effect; especially considering that you're probably going to not put much effort into it.
I don't skimp on dead lifts if you are referring to me but I do want to add cardio because I'm bored on my off days and my diet is not the best.
 

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I think stronglifts would be a good start or any other 5x5 program. I've personally never done stronglifts routine, though I'm kind of skeptical about the program because it has you starting out at 50% of your training max. I guess it is better to start out too light and progress longer over a period of time than to progress to quickly and stall out.

As for Deadlifts, I can't tell you to do them or not, but any good athlete, powerlifter, strongman or bodybuilder uses deadlifts. I say learn to love em or just man up and do it. As for me I'm not really a fan of squatting, but I do it anyways cause I know its the best exercise for my legs and good for developing overall mass. The Deadlift will work more muscles than any other exercise you do.
 

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bigwuz said:
I don't skimp on dead lifts if you are referring to me but I do want to add cardio because I'm bored on my off days and my diet is not the best.
Then fix your diet. Adding cardio because your diet is poor is like putting a bandaid over an infected wound, you're just covering it up.
 

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SayWhat said:
And what do you mean with results? Muscle mass or strength?
well i gained around 10lbs of lean body mass , shed some fat(20lbs) and i'm stronger now,just the other day i moved a truck o_O well i just got it out of a pit but still...i could barely do a single push up before....

but i eat massive like 1kg of chx breasts and 4 liters of milk.....
also my buddy tried it and well he is stronger but still skinny, IMO it works better for fat people. (i was obese)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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