She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yup ive been doing it for 3 months and i haven't done the deadliftsbigwuz said:Does anybody else do this? I never lifted before this. Think it is an good program except deadlifts. I hate them lol
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't skimp on dead lifts if you are referring to me but I do want to add cardio because I'm bored on my off days and my diet is not the best.DanZy said:Why skimp on deadlifts? Man up and do them. Deads are by far my favourite lift. There's no need to add cardio to it, yes your cardiovascular stamina will increase but it'll have little more effect; especially considering that you're probably going to not put much effort into it.
Then fix your diet. Adding cardio because your diet is poor is like putting a bandaid over an infected wound, you're just covering it up.bigwuz said:I don't skimp on dead lifts if you are referring to me but I do want to add cardio because I'm bored on my off days and my diet is not the best.
well i gained around 10lbs of lean body mass , shed some fat(20lbs) and i'm stronger now,just the other day i moved a truckSayWhat said:And what do you mean with results? Muscle mass or strength?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.