"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Strong Vs Weak personalities

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This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slaog said:
This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
so if a female flakes on going out you should just ignore it and keep talking to them?
 

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He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
who are you first of all and second of all how is asking a legit question trolling?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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slaog said:
MisterMcGee answered your question. Whatever happens, it shouldn't effect you in any way. Your attitude should be its her loss.
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?
 

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omega05 said:
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?

Check out the respect thread. If somebody disrespects you you'll have to take some sort of action. You don't have to next her you can just tell her that its not something you tolerate.


Whatever happens, however she behaves it should not effect you in the least. If she sees that you don't tolerate bad behaviour and you're not effected by her behaviour it'll send out a powerful message.
 
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