"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Strong Vs Weak personalities

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This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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slaog said:
This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
so if a female flakes on going out you should just ignore it and keep talking to them?
 

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He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
who are you first of all and second of all how is asking a legit question trolling?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slaog said:
MisterMcGee answered your question. Whatever happens, it shouldn't effect you in any way. Your attitude should be its her loss.
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?
 

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omega05 said:
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?

Check out the respect thread. If somebody disrespects you you'll have to take some sort of action. You don't have to next her you can just tell her that its not something you tolerate.


Whatever happens, however she behaves it should not effect you in the least. If she sees that you don't tolerate bad behaviour and you're not effected by her behaviour it'll send out a powerful message.
 
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