"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strong Vs Weak personalities

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This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slaog said:
This is mainly a tip for shy guys who are comfortable staying in the background.


A DJ knows who he is. He has a rock solid sense of self. Therefore if somebody says/done anything bad to him it won't have the slightest effect because of his strong personality. Never let anybody effect your mood. It says alot about people who are like this and guess what, women notice it too. It shows inner strength.


People who have strong personalities attract other people to their reality. You'll notice this everywhere. The leader of the group is usually the one with the strongest personality and the followers have the weakest personalities. Which do you think women prefer?


Strong personality does not mean the loudest person. Its the person who doesn't change under pressure of any kind.


When you walk into a crowded room and everybody turns around to look at you some people become nervous and start sweating etc. Everybody notices this. Other people don't care if theres 1 person in the room or 1 million. They stay the same and other people notice this too and it translates as being high value behaviour.


So stay strong and don't let any people or thing effect you negatively in any way.
so if a female flakes on going out you should just ignore it and keep talking to them?
 

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He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
He never said that. don't troll. He said he wont let him affect him. That doesn't mean he has no brain.
Use yours.
who are you first of all and second of all how is asking a legit question trolling?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slaog said:
MisterMcGee answered your question. Whatever happens, it shouldn't effect you in any way. Your attitude should be its her loss.
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?
 

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omega05 said:
but do you call her out on it or continue to talk to her like nothing happened?

Check out the respect thread. If somebody disrespects you you'll have to take some sort of action. You don't have to next her you can just tell her that its not something you tolerate.


Whatever happens, however she behaves it should not effect you in the least. If she sees that you don't tolerate bad behaviour and you're not effected by her behaviour it'll send out a powerful message.
 
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