Strong mature men are not desirable, and not getting laid?

[tesla8520]

I have the impression that the more mature we become, the more serious we become about the goals we want to achieve in our lives, and therefore our behavior reflects our commitment, and then women kinda repulse us.
After you've been in your DJ phase, once you've made the transition to achieving concrete goals in life, it seems so difficult

By this I mean that if you have firm boundaries, maintain your structure, and behave seriously and maturely, and you will walk out when disrespect happen, you are simply a repellent to modern women. It's like a mosquito circling something that attracts it, but then it never hits it.

We had been warned about this, but I didn't think it would be that hard to accept.
Has it always been this way throughout history, or is it modern times?

 

[The Duke]

For me, the more experiences I've had the less tolerant I have become. My desire to score new pu$$y has diminished as I have grown older. Been there and done that many times, the adventure doesn't draw me in like it did at one time.

These days, I don't need to exert as much effort to score a new girl. My skills and confidence help me to execute better than ever before. Its never been easier. I get what I want with little effort. If it takes too much time, energy, or effort I find someone else. I don't make it my mission to find girls. It used to be going out was always centered around finding women.

Yes as most things in life, its always been this way. Enjoy the ride, focus on the journey, not the destination.

 

[Barrister]

For me, the more experiences I've had the less tolerant I have become. My desire to score new pu$$y has diminished as I have grown older. Been there and done that many times, the adventure doesn't draw me in like it did at one time.

These days, I don't need to exert as much effort to score a new girl. My skills and confidence help me to execute better than ever before. Its never been easier. I get what I want with little effort. If it takes too much time, energy, or effort I find someone else. I don't make it my mission to find girls. It used to be going out was always centered around finding women.

Yes as most things in life, its always been this way. Enjoy the ride, focus on the journey, not the destination.

I met a girl off of OLD this past Friday for the first time at a bar. Probably a HB 7. Good looking girl who was a gym enthusiast and in good shape. Physically my type. The more and more we spoke the more I could tell she had a masculine energy about her. Extremely opinionated, pushy, and couldn't seem to let the conversation be steered away from her ex for very long before she was complaining about him again. She was very touchy-feely though and I could tell she was high interest.

Even 5 years ago I probably would have just put up with all of it to add another source of sex into my life as a plate. At this point, the idea just exhausts me to have the drama in my life I inevitably would have to hear about in order to get a bang from her. I agree with you 100%. I kissed her goodnight and went home and didn't regret it at all.

Strong mature men are desirable. Strong mature men sometimes decide the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Too often people use "strong mature" framing when it's actually just "boring".

Boring doesn't get you laid.