Strong and Masculine

[Epic Days]

“There is nothing more empowering for a man than rejecting an attractive woman or one who steps out of line”

 

[Brooks]

I will not tell you any more Brooks. There are two schools of thought going on here. I don’t know EyeOnThePrize but I’m pretty sure he’s cool.
He may understand you better than I.

This is why I want you to read “The Rational Male.
There is a lesson in this. It has to do with trying to keep a woman or getting one back. It’s way too much trouble and the outcome is poor. Very poor. I am well past any thoughts of keeping a woman around if any less than optimum situation comes up.
Your call. It must always be your call.

Sure. My call, I agree. I’ve heard Eye’s thiughtsnon it and it worth mulling over. But I’d also like to know your thoughts on an ultimatum in this scenerio. Or if ultimatums are sure fire ways to destruction

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

just to expand Brooks, it means being able to walk away and mean it. always be in that state. be strict with her. if a girl does something i told her not to i give her less of my time. simple. i start to do more things without her. don't think about labels, that'll get you in trouble. be faithful and nice because you like her, not because you have a label. if she violates your respect then simply state what isn't working for you. if she doesn't work on it you walk. you gotta really mean it though. like Epic said, she'll see through you if you try to fake it. you gotta own it.

 

[Brooks]

just to expand Brooks, it means being able to walk away and mean it. always be in that state. be strict with her. if a girl does something i told her not to i give her less of my time. simple. i start to do more things without her. don't think about labels, that'll get you in trouble. be faithful and nice because you like her, not because you have a label. if she violates your respect then simply state what isn't working for you. if she doesn't work on it you walk. you gotta really mean it though. like Epic said, she'll see through you if you try to fake it. you gotta own it.

But if I don’t give the ultimatum, then she still has free range to talk to him. Nothing is final. With the ultimatum I clearly state what fits and what doesn’t, and if she can’t get on board with that, then I walk right then and there. Doesn’t the ultimatum make more sense.

I hear what you’re saying about the labels. It’s good.

 

[Epic Days]

Sure. My call, I agree. I’ve heard Eye’s thiughtsnon it and it worth mulling over. But I’d also like to know your thoughts on an ultimatum in this scenerio. Or if ultimatums are sure fire ways to destruction

Ultimatums are part of a weak frame. In that respect he is right.
So he has a valid point. Just fukking dump her.

She won’t and can’t comply with your ultimatum.
But you can’t do that because your ultimatum is a last ditch effort to hold onto her. She knows this. You cannot win this. That ultimatum is the display of a weak man.

She will NOT comply. She will just take it even more covert and still slay you.

 

[Brooks]

Ultimatums are part of a weak frame. In that respect he is right.
So he has a valid point. Just fukking dump her.

She won’t and can’t comply with your ultimatum.
But you can’t do that because your ultimatum is a last ditch effort to hold onto her. She knows this. You cannot win this. That ultimatum is the display of a weak man.

She will NOT comply. She will just take it even more covert and still slay you.

Right. Right.

I don’t want to dump.. YET

So the game plan would be to now incorporate boundaries. And massage all this weakness I’ve put in.. out. Always willing to walk.

 

[Spaz]

What are some of the pillars which one needs to focus on with importance in dealing with girlfriends?

By not erecting a pillar for ur girlfriend.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Focusing on developing ways to become a strong masculine man in my life. So it creates true desire with my girlfriend (or a future one if this one doesn’t workout).

And I’m looking for ways to start my journey on this. The above is a quote from an article and it states what women truly respond to as opposed to the nice guy shtick of buying or negotiating her attraction with chores or gifts.

What are some of the pillars which one needs to focus on with importance in dealing with girlfriends?

Lift weights
Become your mental point of origin

 

[backseatjuan]

What are some of the pillars which one needs to focus on with importance in dealing with girlfriends?

Physical fitness, it's same for her as for you beauty in a woman. Would you bang a super model while in a committed relationship? Will she bang a body builder while in committed relationship? Yes!

 

[Brooks]

Physical fitness, it's same for her as for you beauty in a woman. Would you bang a super model while in a committed relationship? Will she bang a body builder while in committed relationship? Yes!

I don’t think most women would cheat on a guy for a body builder..