"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stroke of bad luck?!

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I tried to holla at this chick at my school. I was lucky that she was around (and only seen by) me as opposed to my other two friends. (BTW, they're both PROFESSIONAL Don Juans) Not only that, she was a dime! I couldn't let my friends know I was doing this cuz they'd probably sneak and steal. I had to do this alone.
Things have been getting good between us. She sits next to me in class and parks next to me every time before class! Pretty rare. But when I asked her out, I received the usual "I have a boyfriend." Not only that, the attraction for us apparently ended faster than Milli Vanilli's career.:(
After that, I just left cuz I had no damn clue of what to do when a girl tells you she got a bf. I thought to myself "Wow, you try for a girl who likes you only to find out she's taken. Just some uncommon bad luck, considering the fact that average dudes wouldn't even try."
Right now, I'm trying to beat that system. I am more than sure that there are ways to get around the "I have a bf" barrier and still win the girl. Any Ideas? I'm very available to listen!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nvictor

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nismo, make sure she doesn't have a bf. Because a girl with a bf is really a problem you don't want, believe me.

In case she doesn't here is a reply : "I think you're being neglected! Nobody knows what could happen from 3 to 5 minutes... let me stay with you so that bad guys couldn't approach you..."

try it. it has worked for me.
 
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Even if she does have a boyfriend. Hang out with her anyway. Hot chicks generally have hot friends. Best case you hit it off with one of them - worst case you get more experience with a group of hot chicks.
 
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Stroke of bad luck?, thats when luke skywalker cant ejaculate when hes jacking off
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That would be so cool to get paid to pick up chicks, that would eliminate all fear whatsoever. Thats a good idea.... someone write a post
 
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well good job for asking but dude move on. Seriously just treat her like a regular friend and go for someone else. Believe me im like this to, most girls I like have b/f's so when I find out they are taken I still talk to them, but I treat them just like a regular friend. so dude move on.
 
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