"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stroke of bad luck?!

nismo-4

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I tried to holla at this chick at my school. I was lucky that she was around (and only seen by) me as opposed to my other two friends. (BTW, they're both PROFESSIONAL Don Juans) Not only that, she was a dime! I couldn't let my friends know I was doing this cuz they'd probably sneak and steal. I had to do this alone.
Things have been getting good between us. She sits next to me in class and parks next to me every time before class! Pretty rare. But when I asked her out, I received the usual "I have a boyfriend." Not only that, the attraction for us apparently ended faster than Milli Vanilli's career.:(
After that, I just left cuz I had no damn clue of what to do when a girl tells you she got a bf. I thought to myself "Wow, you try for a girl who likes you only to find out she's taken. Just some uncommon bad luck, considering the fact that average dudes wouldn't even try."
Right now, I'm trying to beat that system. I am more than sure that there are ways to get around the "I have a bf" barrier and still win the girl. Any Ideas? I'm very available to listen!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nvictor

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nismo, make sure she doesn't have a bf. Because a girl with a bf is really a problem you don't want, believe me.

In case she doesn't here is a reply : "I think you're being neglected! Nobody knows what could happen from 3 to 5 minutes... let me stay with you so that bad guys couldn't approach you..."

try it. it has worked for me.
 

samaka

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Even if she does have a boyfriend. Hang out with her anyway. Hot chicks generally have hot friends. Best case you hit it off with one of them - worst case you get more experience with a group of hot chicks.
 

LA_Chico

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Stroke of bad luck?, thats when luke skywalker cant ejaculate when hes jacking off
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mjazz

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That would be so cool to get paid to pick up chicks, that would eliminate all fear whatsoever. Thats a good idea.... someone write a post
 

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well good job for asking but dude move on. Seriously just treat her like a regular friend and go for someone else. Believe me im like this to, most girls I like have b/f's so when I find out they are taken I still talk to them, but I treat them just like a regular friend. so dude move on.
 
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