"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stroke of bad luck?!

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I tried to holla at this chick at my school. I was lucky that she was around (and only seen by) me as opposed to my other two friends. (BTW, they're both PROFESSIONAL Don Juans) Not only that, she was a dime! I couldn't let my friends know I was doing this cuz they'd probably sneak and steal. I had to do this alone.
Things have been getting good between us. She sits next to me in class and parks next to me every time before class! Pretty rare. But when I asked her out, I received the usual "I have a boyfriend." Not only that, the attraction for us apparently ended faster than Milli Vanilli's career.:(
After that, I just left cuz I had no damn clue of what to do when a girl tells you she got a bf. I thought to myself "Wow, you try for a girl who likes you only to find out she's taken. Just some uncommon bad luck, considering the fact that average dudes wouldn't even try."
Right now, I'm trying to beat that system. I am more than sure that there are ways to get around the "I have a bf" barrier and still win the girl. Any Ideas? I'm very available to listen!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nvictor

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nismo, make sure she doesn't have a bf. Because a girl with a bf is really a problem you don't want, believe me.

In case she doesn't here is a reply : "I think you're being neglected! Nobody knows what could happen from 3 to 5 minutes... let me stay with you so that bad guys couldn't approach you..."

try it. it has worked for me.
 
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Even if she does have a boyfriend. Hang out with her anyway. Hot chicks generally have hot friends. Best case you hit it off with one of them - worst case you get more experience with a group of hot chicks.
 
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Stroke of bad luck?, thats when luke skywalker cant ejaculate when hes jacking off
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That would be so cool to get paid to pick up chicks, that would eliminate all fear whatsoever. Thats a good idea.... someone write a post
 
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well good job for asking but dude move on. Seriously just treat her like a regular friend and go for someone else. Believe me im like this to, most girls I like have b/f's so when I find out they are taken I still talk to them, but I treat them just like a regular friend. so dude move on.
 
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