"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stripper's Darkest Secret Revealed!

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Ask any stripper this question and you may be shocked to hear the answer:

Question: "Were you more promiscuous before you became a stripper, or after?"
Answer: "Definitely before!"

I've asked my favorite 3 strippers (who I dated a combined 6 years) this question and they all answered the same.

It turns out that when they spend 40 hours a week pretending to be turned on, they are actually less turned on the rest of the time. So it's a myth that strippers are more promiscuous.

It also turns out that stripping makes them like their significant other MORE, not less, because they meet so many counterexamples.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ask any stripper this question and you may be shocked to hear the answer:

Question: "Were you more promiscuous before you became a stripper, or after?"
Answer: "Definitely before!"

I've asked my favorite 3 strippers (who I dated a combined 6 years) this question and they all answered the same.

It turns out that when they spend 40 hours a week pretending to be turned on, they are actually less turned on the rest of the time. So it's a myth that strippers are more promiscuous.

It also turns out that stripping makes them like their significant other MORE, not less, because they meet so many counterexamples.
I think playing around with their sexuality just to take money, will actually lead them to have LESS sexual desire for men. Actually a lot of them are bi or full blown lesbo's...
 

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I think playing around with their sexuality just to take money, will actually lead them to have LESS sexual desire for men. Actually a lot of them are bi or full blown lesbo's...
Most are bi. In fact, I've never met one who wasn't bi. My favorite said she originally became a stripper (exactly one year ago) to watch a girl she had a crush on. Indeed many are lesbos who hate men but pretend to like them. But if you make them orgasm, it's safe to say they are not lesbian. I suppose some might fake it, but at some point if they fake it so convincingly that you can't tell, then it's a moot point.

The funniest thing that strippers do is, if they are dating you for free, they secretly tally up how much free play you got (adding the priceless element if they don't sell sex). Which means after a few months they consider themselves as having given you $40,000 worth.
 
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It means it's in her psychic and utilitarian interest to say she has less sex now and that she's more loyal now.
Possibly, but I've asked many women this and have achieved parity on responses. In some cases the women volunteered the information, and I dated them for years so I got a pretty good idea of what they were really like. Women can only fool you for 3 months or so, not 3 years. If a girl has 40 less hours with 128 waking hours, it makes sense that she would have less sex.

What's funny to me is how men make generalizations about strippers, but I dated 30 strippers and even I can't make any generalizations about that pool of women, other than they were hot.

Here are some other secrets:

2) Strippers tend to date some guy who is broke because they are so used to men paying them with strings attached, that they naturally seek someone with no strings attached.

3) The reason there is a lot of coke at strip clubs is because they want guys to do it because they usually can't get it up.

4) They make about $10,000 a month, or $600 per work day.

5) One stripper I heard was said to have had sex with 7 guys, one after another ($250 each), in VIP (per the bouncer). The girl who told me about her said she was beautiful.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Possibly, but I've asked many women this and have achieved parity on responses. In some cases the women volunteered the information, and I dated them for years so I got a pretty good idea of what they were really like. Women can only fool you for 3 months or so, not 3 years. If a girl has 40 less hours with 128 waking hours, it makes sense that she would have less sex.

What's funny to me is how men make generalizations about strippers, but I dated 30 strippers and even I can't make any generalizations about that pool of women, other than they were hot.

Here are some other secrets:

2) Strippers tend to date some guy who is broke because they are so used to men paying them with strings attached, that they naturally seek someone with no strings attached.

3) The reason there is a lot of coke at strip clubs is because they want guys to do it because they usually can't get it up.

4) They make about $10,000 a month, or $600 per work day.

5) One stripper I heard was said to have had sex with 7 guys, one after another ($250 each), in VIP (per the bouncer). The girl who told me about her said she was beautiful.
A lot of them quote their "high day" as their average working days, and many days a week don't bring in that much.
 

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A lot of them quote their "high day" as their average working days, and many days a week don't bring in that much.
Exactly. If they got $1500 once, 2 years ago, and are completely destitute now, they will say "I make $1500 an hour".
 
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