"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stripper's Darkest Secret Revealed!

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Ask any stripper this question and you may be shocked to hear the answer:

Question: "Were you more promiscuous before you became a stripper, or after?"
Answer: "Definitely before!"

I've asked my favorite 3 strippers (who I dated a combined 6 years) this question and they all answered the same.

It turns out that when they spend 40 hours a week pretending to be turned on, they are actually less turned on the rest of the time. So it's a myth that strippers are more promiscuous.

It also turns out that stripping makes them like their significant other MORE, not less, because they meet so many counterexamples.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ask any stripper this question and you may be shocked to hear the answer:

Question: "Were you more promiscuous before you became a stripper, or after?"
Answer: "Definitely before!"

I've asked my favorite 3 strippers (who I dated a combined 6 years) this question and they all answered the same.

It turns out that when they spend 40 hours a week pretending to be turned on, they are actually less turned on the rest of the time. So it's a myth that strippers are more promiscuous.

It also turns out that stripping makes them like their significant other MORE, not less, because they meet so many counterexamples.
I think playing around with their sexuality just to take money, will actually lead them to have LESS sexual desire for men. Actually a lot of them are bi or full blown lesbo's...
 

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I think playing around with their sexuality just to take money, will actually lead them to have LESS sexual desire for men. Actually a lot of them are bi or full blown lesbo's...
Most are bi. In fact, I've never met one who wasn't bi. My favorite said she originally became a stripper (exactly one year ago) to watch a girl she had a crush on. Indeed many are lesbos who hate men but pretend to like them. But if you make them orgasm, it's safe to say they are not lesbian. I suppose some might fake it, but at some point if they fake it so convincingly that you can't tell, then it's a moot point.

The funniest thing that strippers do is, if they are dating you for free, they secretly tally up how much free play you got (adding the priceless element if they don't sell sex). Which means after a few months they consider themselves as having given you $40,000 worth.
 
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It means it's in her psychic and utilitarian interest to say she has less sex now and that she's more loyal now.
Possibly, but I've asked many women this and have achieved parity on responses. In some cases the women volunteered the information, and I dated them for years so I got a pretty good idea of what they were really like. Women can only fool you for 3 months or so, not 3 years. If a girl has 40 less hours with 128 waking hours, it makes sense that she would have less sex.

What's funny to me is how men make generalizations about strippers, but I dated 30 strippers and even I can't make any generalizations about that pool of women, other than they were hot.

Here are some other secrets:

2) Strippers tend to date some guy who is broke because they are so used to men paying them with strings attached, that they naturally seek someone with no strings attached.

3) The reason there is a lot of coke at strip clubs is because they want guys to do it because they usually can't get it up.

4) They make about $10,000 a month, or $600 per work day.

5) One stripper I heard was said to have had sex with 7 guys, one after another ($250 each), in VIP (per the bouncer). The girl who told me about her said she was beautiful.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Possibly, but I've asked many women this and have achieved parity on responses. In some cases the women volunteered the information, and I dated them for years so I got a pretty good idea of what they were really like. Women can only fool you for 3 months or so, not 3 years. If a girl has 40 less hours with 128 waking hours, it makes sense that she would have less sex.

What's funny to me is how men make generalizations about strippers, but I dated 30 strippers and even I can't make any generalizations about that pool of women, other than they were hot.

Here are some other secrets:

2) Strippers tend to date some guy who is broke because they are so used to men paying them with strings attached, that they naturally seek someone with no strings attached.

3) The reason there is a lot of coke at strip clubs is because they want guys to do it because they usually can't get it up.

4) They make about $10,000 a month, or $600 per work day.

5) One stripper I heard was said to have had sex with 7 guys, one after another ($250 each), in VIP (per the bouncer). The girl who told me about her said she was beautiful.
A lot of them quote their "high day" as their average working days, and many days a week don't bring in that much.
 

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A lot of them quote their "high day" as their average working days, and many days a week don't bring in that much.
Exactly. If they got $1500 once, 2 years ago, and are completely destitute now, they will say "I make $1500 an hour".
 
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