"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stripe Shirts =\

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Do women find them attractive?...I'm asking this because my mother just bought me a fvcking sh.it load of polo (Ralph Lauren) stripe shirts (about 10 or 15 I didn't count) to wear this semester at college...only like about 3 or 4 are one solid color. I know a DJ always needs to look his best so thats why I had to ask you guys about this.

To me i think stripe shirts are kinda gay looking but she already bought them and I didn't want to make her feel bad so I said they were ok =\. They don't look bad...there just striped thats all lol.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't think it's good to wear any brand name shirts in college or anywhere unless that brand is paying you to advertise for them.

As for stripe shirts, if you don't like them don't wear them.
 

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I'm black man, and when your black if your not wearing brand name your considered a loser lol. I don't know why but that's how it is.

I'll have to wear these shirts because I don't want to look like I'm poor wearing some of the same **** I wore last semester. :D

I don't want to look like a fvcking candy cane though.

So i guess I'll find out if they find them attractive anyway you put it =\, but I want to know what I'll be facing..
 

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Originally posted by eric66
I'm black man, and when your black if your not wearing brand name your considered a loser lol. I don't know why but that's how it is.

I'll have to wear these shirts because I don't want to look like I'm poor wearing some of the same **** I wore last semester. :D

I don't want to look like a fvcking candy cane though.

So i guess I'll find out if they find them attractive anyway you put it =\, but I want to know what I'll be facing..
Who cares what your considered? Your first mistake is worrying about how people perceive you... Anyway, it's your first year of college, I assume. You will soon realize that dressing up for class is not needed. As a matter of fact, most college students who dorm wake up about 15 minutes before their class starts. They will throw on a pair of sweat pants and a hoody and walk to class.

The classiest outfits you will see will be at the parties where the girlies dress in their slutty little skirts. God I love them things. Anyway, stock up on jeans and hoodies... that's probably all you will ever need for class.
 

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hey if you're serious about getting rid of them, i'll buy them off of you for a reasonable price! i just discovered that i look good in stripe shirts.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Who cares what your considered? Your first mistake is worrying about how people perceive you... Anyway, it's your first year of college, I assume. You will soon realize that dressing up for class is not needed. As a matter of fact, most college students who dorm wake up about 15 minutes before their class starts. They will throw on a pair of sweat pants and a hoody and walk to class.

The classiest outfits you will see will be at the parties where the girlies dress in their slutty little skirts. God I love them things. Anyway, stock up on jeans and hoodies... that's probably all you will ever need for class.
Amen to that. Not only to the " don't care what others think of your clothes " part, but also the part about the slutty skirts. I was at a club on thursday and a line of asian girls in those skirts passed me and my friends, walking hand in hand, daisy chain style. Good stuff.
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Who cares what your considered? Your first mistake is worrying about how people perceive you... Anyway, it's your first year of college, I assume. You will soon realize that dressing up for class is not needed. As a matter of fact, most college students who dorm wake up about 15 minutes before their class starts. They will throw on a pair of sweat pants and a hoody and walk to class.

The classiest outfits you will see will be at the parties where the girlies dress in their slutty little skirts. God I love them things. Anyway, stock up on jeans and hoodies... that's probably all you will ever need for class.
Well it's not my first time (second). Not counting the courses I took in the summer...I have noticed that not many people dress up though, but some do. I've seen girls come to school In some outfits that show so much skin, that it wouldn't have made a difference if they came naked (no joke) =) (I could imagine what they wear at parties :eek: =). I don't live in a dorm I live at home. I just drive to class everyday and so the most of the other students at C.O.B. (College of The Bahamas) so some of us need more than 15 minutes to get ready.

but I guess your right though (about worrying about what people think)...Its just that when I first started I know I was a BIG TIME AFC! I only made like 5 friends since I started going there..I won't even call them friends...there more like aquaintences. Anways after discovering this site I guess I just want to make a big impression this time around to get rid of that shy AFC rep.

Oh and gergory..there not for sale man..sorry.:D
 

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Originally posted by eric66
Well it's not my first time (second). Not counting the courses I took in the summer...I have noticed that not many people dress up though, but some do. I've seen girls come to school In some outfits that show so much skin, that it wouldn't have made a difference if they came naked (no joke) =) (I could imagine what they wear at parties :eek: =). I don't live in a dorm I live at home. I just drive to class everyday and so the most of the other students at C.O.B. (College of The Bahamas) so some of us need more than 15 minutes to get ready.

but I guess your right though (about worrying about what people think)...Its just that when I first started I know I was a BIG TIME AFC! I only made like 5 friends since I started going there..I won't even call them friends...there more like aquaintences. Anways after discovering this site I guess I just want to make a big impression this time around to get rid of that shy AFC rep.

Oh and gergory..there not for sale man..sorry.:D
Ahh, you see, i'm up north. The majority of the school year it's cold here, so jeans and hoodies are alright to wear. For you, I would recommend some mesh shorts (adidas, nike are fashionable, I guess... and pretty cheap) and some regular logo T-Shirts.

I drive to class as well, so I put some effort in my appearance. I usually do my hair up, brush my teeth and such, but I never really dress up. The dressiest I will be during the warmer months is cargo shorts... lol.

Don't worry so much about your clothes... as long as you know you look good, your fine. As a matter of fact, don't worry about anything. Talk to everyone and make friends for christ sake! No one will judge you if you aren't exactly dressed up for class, trust me.

Go check out the college tips thread in the tips section. Got some great advice in there to help you make friends.
 
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