Strike while the iron is hot

[LandingWood]

How important is this? If her IL is extremely high does it matter when you make your move?

Recently got a girls number I see around campus a lot I can see it in her eyes her il is high. Texted her asked when shed be free she said after 8. I sent her a pic of my books and said I'm gonna be busy tonight so we'll do something some other time. I didn't think about this text before I sent it so I think I showed a little desperation.

Also does the fact that nothing is happening tonight mean her il will lower?

Don't give me the bs about being too invested because I'm posting. I know I know....

THIS BELONGS IN DJ FORUM. IF A MOD COULD MOVE IT I'D APPRECIATE THAT.

 

[lili19771]

"nothing is going on tonight"

Try to make something happen. Especially if you're worried about her IL going down when nothing happens.

Anything can affect a person's IL. But most of the time it is important to do something rather than drag it out.

You also seem too invested...

 

[NorwegianDJ]

There's always a window of opportunity which often closes before you want it to.

 

[DarkDetective50]

Hmmm...I'd say any text you make should be about a definitive date with a time and place. Don't even ask. Just say come with me to so-so and so place. Period.

 

[PlayHer Man]

If you're not planning to f*ck a woman soon.. why are to talking to her? Only talk to her when you are making moves.

If you need to study.. don't say sh!t.. just study. She isn't your mother. When 8 comes around she will either contact you or wonder why you flaked (hamster wheel )

Also.. SPIN PLATES.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Hey when are you free let's grab some coffee.

That my go to line.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Hey when are you free let's grab some coffee.

I'll edit this for ya: Hey when I'm free let's grab some coffee.

See the difference? Try it, seriously. Win/Win.

OP, on that note, nothing wrong with what you asked. You were asking her her available dates....to see if any of them matched up with your schedule. You didn't give anything away. Understand your hesitancy when she made it too easy for you. Sometimes it is that easy though. You played it cool, green flag for her. Next time, I'd say take that opportunity. Priorities are priorities but most women understand, eventually a man needs to be a man.

 

[_sideways_]

If you're not planning to f*ck a woman soon.. why are to talking to her? Only talk to her when you are making moves.

If you need to study.. don't say sh!t.. just study. She isn't your mother. When 8 comes around she will either contact you or wonder why you flaked (hamster wheel )

Also.. SPIN PLATES.

When is it a good time to contact?, after you slept with her....

 

[LandingWood]

When is it a good time to contact?, after you slept with her....

Only contact for logistics and after you've slept with her you can contact her a little more often 2/3 rule applies

 

[str8-2-BONEzone]

u gotta go str8 2 bone zone w all the hb8s u meet if u no what i meen ur gunna be a dawg in the sack :box: i got so many hb8 in my crib they r babes in the bed if u no what i meen

 

[CJ 101]

"nothing is going on tonight"

Try to make something happen. Especially if you're worried about her IL going down when nothing happens.

Anything can affect a person's IL. But most of the time it is important to do something rather than drag it out.

You also seem too invested...

True.