"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I asked this girl that i like if she wanted to go hang out sometime. She said her dad wont let her hang out with guys. I tried to get her number and she cant even have guys calling her house. She doesnt have a cell phone. Only way i could talk to her was through AIM so I went ahead got her screename. So, basically her dad is really strict. I really like this girl and I dont want to wait too long and end up in the friends zone. My friend goes out with her older sister and they only get to see each other during school also. I talked to some of my other friends and they said that its true that her dad is really strict. What do u think i should do next?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a little experience in the field...best advice I can give is to SOMEHOW find a way to meet her dad and leave a REALLY good impression-- I did that to a chick's mom who had something stuck up her ass it seemed until I met her. Don't waste too much time on this unless it really seems worth it though...from your story it seems like you might be S.O.L.
 
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Help her with smth she needs very much. May be her father would understand that you are SERIOS.
 
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im sorry but what does smth mean?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I had a buddy in a similer situation cept they were even worse (as in would monitor the AIM and crap). They been married for almost a year now, it's an urban fairy tale so to be perfectly honest the best thing you can do is move on.

We litrelly had to make bugs just so they could hold a conversation. I ben in this case too and trust me, there's really nothing that can be done except sit and wait. Like I saidm move on FTOW
 
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