"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I asked this girl that i like if she wanted to go hang out sometime. She said her dad wont let her hang out with guys. I tried to get her number and she cant even have guys calling her house. She doesnt have a cell phone. Only way i could talk to her was through AIM so I went ahead got her screename. So, basically her dad is really strict. I really like this girl and I dont want to wait too long and end up in the friends zone. My friend goes out with her older sister and they only get to see each other during school also. I talked to some of my other friends and they said that its true that her dad is really strict. What do u think i should do next?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a little experience in the field...best advice I can give is to SOMEHOW find a way to meet her dad and leave a REALLY good impression-- I did that to a chick's mom who had something stuck up her ass it seemed until I met her. Don't waste too much time on this unless it really seems worth it though...from your story it seems like you might be S.O.L.
 

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Help her with smth she needs very much. May be her father would understand that you are SERIOS.
 

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im sorry but what does smth mean?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had a buddy in a similer situation cept they were even worse (as in would monitor the AIM and crap). They been married for almost a year now, it's an urban fairy tale so to be perfectly honest the best thing you can do is move on.

We litrelly had to make bugs just so they could hold a conversation. I ben in this case too and trust me, there's really nothing that can be done except sit and wait. Like I saidm move on FTOW
 
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