"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sportsfan89

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I asked this girl that i like if she wanted to go hang out sometime. She said her dad wont let her hang out with guys. I tried to get her number and she cant even have guys calling her house. She doesnt have a cell phone. Only way i could talk to her was through AIM so I went ahead got her screename. So, basically her dad is really strict. I really like this girl and I dont want to wait too long and end up in the friends zone. My friend goes out with her older sister and they only get to see each other during school also. I talked to some of my other friends and they said that its true that her dad is really strict. What do u think i should do next?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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supajsilver2

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I have a little experience in the field...best advice I can give is to SOMEHOW find a way to meet her dad and leave a REALLY good impression-- I did that to a chick's mom who had something stuck up her ass it seemed until I met her. Don't waste too much time on this unless it really seems worth it though...from your story it seems like you might be S.O.L.
 

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Help her with smth she needs very much. May be her father would understand that you are SERIOS.
 

sportsfan89

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im sorry but what does smth mean?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I had a buddy in a similer situation cept they were even worse (as in would monitor the AIM and crap). They been married for almost a year now, it's an urban fairy tale so to be perfectly honest the best thing you can do is move on.

We litrelly had to make bugs just so they could hold a conversation. I ben in this case too and trust me, there's really nothing that can be done except sit and wait. Like I saidm move on FTOW
 
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