"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stress in Neck

Kerensky

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My neck and shoulder/top back area has always felt very tense in the past. Lately, it's getting worse and I get really angry when it tenses up because I can't move and just like slouch. I think this may have something to do with my posture, but no matter how much I will myself to sit straight, I can't seem to hold it for more than 45 min to an hour at most. What should I do? Anyone else experience neck tension or neck tension related to bad posture? How did you fix it? Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dastal

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work out youre back more. That dod a lot for me. People think ive grown taller, but really Im just standing up straighter
 

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Originally posted by dastal
work out youre back more. That dod a lot for me. People think ive grown taller, but really Im just standing up straighter
Limed for emphasis.

And hell, practice your DJ skills and get some back rubs while you're at it ;)
 

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Hey this is what I was thinking. Right now, I only do deadlifts and dumbbell rows for my back. I also do a different variation of the bent row but lying on the bench and doing the row with both arms at once.

That is all I know. I have a bench, dumbbells (30 lb max), and a home gym thing with overhead cable and stuff like that. Any more exercises? Or should I still with these.
 
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