"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey guys:

what should be my strategy to game this chick:

i am going out of town to hang with my cuz.. and there are three options:

1. meet her 1-1 for dinner/ coffee (what she suggested)
2. meet her with my cuz and his wife for dinner/ coffee/ something else...
3. she'll be at a party on saturday and just see her there only...
4. some combination of the above...

background info: this is a girl that was attracted to me.. and then it fizzled out.. (i think i came on too strong/ needy/ clingy) whatever.. best way to increase her attraction for me?

thanks guys,

atldude
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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math

the more chicks u have, the less u care about "planning" on how to game them
 
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this is a no brainer bro... take her out one on one. and just go for it. if she's willing to go out with you, thats a good sign that she is still attracted to you.
 
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she already suggested going out for dinner.. she might just be the type of girl who likes attention.. i want to increase her attraction level without being clingy/ needy etc...
 
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first time meeting her?

I think PARTY Why?

If you blow it up, there are many other people to approach. Also party will already get her in state and it will be easier to pump her up, isolate and lay or if you don't lay atleast a makeout to make things escalate pretty easily.

Another reason is she suggested coffee/dinner which is typical dating frame, you don't want to start off like that, it would be best to party and go for the pull or even just turn up the kino (makeout) and then set up a date for another time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl's a pain

i have met her before, but just briefly.. she had high IL and now it's waned...

i am sure that i could go for dinner/ coffee with her... but not sure it's the best strategy...

thanks..
 
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bump.. is seeing this girl twice in two days too much?
 
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