"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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strategy to game this chick

Atldude

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hey guys:

what should be my strategy to game this chick:

i am going out of town to hang with my cuz.. and there are three options:

1. meet her 1-1 for dinner/ coffee (what she suggested)
2. meet her with my cuz and his wife for dinner/ coffee/ something else...
3. she'll be at a party on saturday and just see her there only...
4. some combination of the above...

background info: this is a girl that was attracted to me.. and then it fizzled out.. (i think i came on too strong/ needy/ clingy) whatever.. best way to increase her attraction for me?

thanks guys,

atldude
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Real

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math

the more chicks u have, the less u care about "planning" on how to game them
 

hbxdoode

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this is a no brainer bro... take her out one on one. and just go for it. if she's willing to go out with you, thats a good sign that she is still attracted to you.
 

Atldude

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she already suggested going out for dinner.. she might just be the type of girl who likes attention.. i want to increase her attraction level without being clingy/ needy etc...
 

Snow Plowman

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first time meeting her?

I think PARTY Why?

If you blow it up, there are many other people to approach. Also party will already get her in state and it will be easier to pump her up, isolate and lay or if you don't lay atleast a makeout to make things escalate pretty easily.

Another reason is she suggested coffee/dinner which is typical dating frame, you don't want to start off like that, it would be best to party and go for the pull or even just turn up the kino (makeout) and then set up a date for another time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Atldude

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girl's a pain

i have met her before, but just briefly.. she had high IL and now it's waned...

i am sure that i could go for dinner/ coffee with her... but not sure it's the best strategy...

thanks..
 

Atldude

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bump.. is seeing this girl twice in two days too much?
 
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