"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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strategy to game this chick

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hey guys:

what should be my strategy to game this chick:

i am going out of town to hang with my cuz.. and there are three options:

1. meet her 1-1 for dinner/ coffee (what she suggested)
2. meet her with my cuz and his wife for dinner/ coffee/ something else...
3. she'll be at a party on saturday and just see her there only...
4. some combination of the above...

background info: this is a girl that was attracted to me.. and then it fizzled out.. (i think i came on too strong/ needy/ clingy) whatever.. best way to increase her attraction for me?

thanks guys,

atldude
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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math

the more chicks u have, the less u care about "planning" on how to game them
 
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this is a no brainer bro... take her out one on one. and just go for it. if she's willing to go out with you, thats a good sign that she is still attracted to you.
 
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she already suggested going out for dinner.. she might just be the type of girl who likes attention.. i want to increase her attraction level without being clingy/ needy etc...
 
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first time meeting her?

I think PARTY Why?

If you blow it up, there are many other people to approach. Also party will already get her in state and it will be easier to pump her up, isolate and lay or if you don't lay atleast a makeout to make things escalate pretty easily.

Another reason is she suggested coffee/dinner which is typical dating frame, you don't want to start off like that, it would be best to party and go for the pull or even just turn up the kino (makeout) and then set up a date for another time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl's a pain

i have met her before, but just briefly.. she had high IL and now it's waned...

i am sure that i could go for dinner/ coffee with her... but not sure it's the best strategy...

thanks..
 
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bump.. is seeing this girl twice in two days too much?
 
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