So this summer, I worked at a restaurant to help pay for school and ended up asking the hostess out on a date. We went out a few times and at the end of the summer she gave me low interest responses about how she wanted to continue. Without hesitation, I nexted her. I kindly told her to "**** off" which she was not happy about. She continued to try to contact me when we got back to school but I ignored her. One night I finally responded and told her I was going to block her if she didn't become friends with benefits. Bold move, I know. But she agreed to it nonetheless. She spends the weekend with me at my apartment but doesn't have sex. However she acts like we're dating. This weekend she spent the night as well but also wouldnt have sex. She teased me the whole night and even stripped for me but would not put out. My gut instinct is that she is trying to up my emotional investment in her. BUT strange enough, she told me last night that she "doesn't date." I don't claim myself as a Don Juan, but I have had success in my days after first discovering So Suave. This could be the strangest situation I think I've ever found myself in. Nothing is making sense. The only conclusion I can come up with is that this girl is desperate for attention and has some form of abandonment issues. I am posting this thread not as a "what should I do" or "does she like me" post, but rather to crowd help and opinions so that I can better understand the psychology of the situation