"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Damned

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Hi Guys,
Just need your advice and thoughts on something.
I was out tonight and a girl came over to me, asked was I single and gave me a piece of paper with her name and number on and then just walked off.
Now I need to ask the following

* Do you think it was a wind up?

* Is it a good thing

* And should I call the number or not? Shes not my type and I dont find her attractive, so if I was going with her I would be doing it for the wrong reasons or would It be good experience for me?

Another thing as Im not good at chatting up women, would it be easier for me to try this approach with girls I fancy, just leaving my number and then walking off?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Call the number. Hell, I'd call it right now in this situation. I would have called it right after she gave it to me.

That is all I have to contribute.
 

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whether she's your type or not, if men in general would consider her even moderately attractive, I'd probably go for it just for the experience if I were you. That's what you gotta do when you're still a n00b; beggars can't be choosers

if she's just totally ugly or really fat, then I probably wouldn't waste my time. In that instance, she'd probably be different from most girls anyway because she'll have very low self-esteem. So interacting her won't help you much in dealing with regular girls
 
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Only eat candy that you like, and not what is thrown to you - it may contain poison!!!
 

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And should I call the number or not? Shes not my type and I dont find her attractive
You answered your own question
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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