"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Damned

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Hi Guys,
Just need your advice and thoughts on something.
I was out tonight and a girl came over to me, asked was I single and gave me a piece of paper with her name and number on and then just walked off.
Now I need to ask the following

* Do you think it was a wind up?

* Is it a good thing

* And should I call the number or not? Shes not my type and I dont find her attractive, so if I was going with her I would be doing it for the wrong reasons or would It be good experience for me?

Another thing as Im not good at chatting up women, would it be easier for me to try this approach with girls I fancy, just leaving my number and then walking off?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Call the number. Hell, I'd call it right now in this situation. I would have called it right after she gave it to me.

That is all I have to contribute.
 

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whether she's your type or not, if men in general would consider her even moderately attractive, I'd probably go for it just for the experience if I were you. That's what you gotta do when you're still a n00b; beggars can't be choosers

if she's just totally ugly or really fat, then I probably wouldn't waste my time. In that instance, she'd probably be different from most girls anyway because she'll have very low self-esteem. So interacting her won't help you much in dealing with regular girls
 
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Only eat candy that you like, and not what is thrown to you - it may contain poison!!!
 

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And should I call the number or not? Shes not my type and I dont find her attractive
You answered your own question
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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