"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jez

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Hi Guys,

Hello from sunny England UK!.

A couple of observations from my life. About 6 years ago I use to frequent a pub where I believed I met my match. I felt a spirtiual feeling for this girl who worked there, but my shyness stop me asking this girl out. One day she left and I have often thought about her since. Believe it or not I asked and prayed to God that it
was so unfair she left without me having a chance to meet her and ask her out. But in six years I never saw her again.

Then one day I was at a cash dispenser at a petrol station and a car pulled up and she got out of the car looked over to me and went inside I think to buy some cigarrettes. I was really shocked I thought this is my chance to say Hi and maybe find away to meet up with her. I want to the station to pay for a news paper and as she was in front of me I felt myself shaking with nerves. As she turned and left she looked at me and I couldn't bring myself to look at her, I bottled it. As she left I saw her get into a car with some guy and what looked like a young child in the back. It was almost like I was being given the message she has moved and forget about her. Since then I have not looked or thought of her since. Uncanny.

I think I know my issue is shyness and I am trying to confront it head on now and ask girls out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheNonPedant

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I think your issue could be oneitis and putting women on pedestals.

But its good that your trying to get your head together. It all starts up there.

Take care
 

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i feel u man......get over it,it wasn't to be if she was to be urs than nothing in the world would have stopped u from having her, but God has other plans for u, maybe its for ur own good in the long run.
 

NatureGuy

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It's quite common for pretty women to have alot of admirers. Sometimes they are guys she doesn't even know who admire her from afar, as in this case.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Be careful what you pray for when it comes to a woman - you may just get your prayer answered and bring your life to ruin in the process!
 
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