"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hi Guys,

Hello from sunny England UK!.

A couple of observations from my life. About 6 years ago I use to frequent a pub where I believed I met my match. I felt a spirtiual feeling for this girl who worked there, but my shyness stop me asking this girl out. One day she left and I have often thought about her since. Believe it or not I asked and prayed to God that it
was so unfair she left without me having a chance to meet her and ask her out. But in six years I never saw her again.

Then one day I was at a cash dispenser at a petrol station and a car pulled up and she got out of the car looked over to me and went inside I think to buy some cigarrettes. I was really shocked I thought this is my chance to say Hi and maybe find away to meet up with her. I want to the station to pay for a news paper and as she was in front of me I felt myself shaking with nerves. As she turned and left she looked at me and I couldn't bring myself to look at her, I bottled it. As she left I saw her get into a car with some guy and what looked like a young child in the back. It was almost like I was being given the message she has moved and forget about her. Since then I have not looked or thought of her since. Uncanny.

I think I know my issue is shyness and I am trying to confront it head on now and ask girls out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheNonPedant

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I think your issue could be oneitis and putting women on pedestals.

But its good that your trying to get your head together. It all starts up there.

Take care
 
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i feel u man......get over it,it wasn't to be if she was to be urs than nothing in the world would have stopped u from having her, but God has other plans for u, maybe its for ur own good in the long run.
 
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It's quite common for pretty women to have alot of admirers. Sometimes they are guys she doesn't even know who admire her from afar, as in this case.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be careful what you pray for when it comes to a woman - you may just get your prayer answered and bring your life to ruin in the process!
 
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