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styleman

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her: 'I'm back in town, meet me'
me: 'Sorry I can't I'm out of town on work, and I have too much, can't make it back to London for the next few days, possibly be back by Saturday'
her: 'I fly on Thursday' (1. I already knew this 2. Does she think I'll automatically do something about it...)
me: 'Miss you lots, wish I could make it back to meet you but this work is really important'
her: 'I miss you too, this is annoying.'
(I really had to think here wtf to say)
me: So when do you get back?
her: don't know (awkwardness, of course she knows!)
me: Ok, I hope you have an amazing trip
her: Thanks, bye

Whaaaa????????
 

r0cky

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She was looking for a quickie. she doesn't seem to have a lot of respect for you. I would've answered with short curt answers.
 

styleman

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r0cky said:
She was looking for a quickie. she doesn't seem to have a lot of respect for you. I would've answered with short curt answers.
How is the best way to earn respect from her?
 

cyp6

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she has respect for you or she wouldnt have text you like this..
she has low intrest because you made it too easy for her in the past... be more busy and be polite about it and youll be golden... make your time valuable you did well mate.
 

styleman

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cyp6 said:
she has respect for you or she wouldnt have text you like this..
she has low intrest because you made it too easy for her in the past... be more busy and be polite about it and youll be golden... make your time valuable you did well mate.
Quite true, I did chase her a lot in the past, do you think that changing my behavior now would reverse that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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