"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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her: 'I'm back in town, meet me'
me: 'Sorry I can't I'm out of town on work, and I have too much, can't make it back to London for the next few days, possibly be back by Saturday'
her: 'I fly on Thursday' (1. I already knew this 2. Does she think I'll automatically do something about it...)
me: 'Miss you lots, wish I could make it back to meet you but this work is really important'
her: 'I miss you too, this is annoying.'
(I really had to think here wtf to say)
me: So when do you get back?
her: don't know (awkwardness, of course she knows!)
me: Ok, I hope you have an amazing trip
her: Thanks, bye

Whaaaa????????
 

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She was looking for a quickie. she doesn't seem to have a lot of respect for you. I would've answered with short curt answers.
 

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r0cky said:
She was looking for a quickie. she doesn't seem to have a lot of respect for you. I would've answered with short curt answers.
How is the best way to earn respect from her?
 

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she has respect for you or she wouldnt have text you like this..
she has low intrest because you made it too easy for her in the past... be more busy and be polite about it and youll be golden... make your time valuable you did well mate.
 

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cyp6 said:
she has respect for you or she wouldnt have text you like this..
she has low intrest because you made it too easy for her in the past... be more busy and be polite about it and youll be golden... make your time valuable you did well mate.
Quite true, I did chase her a lot in the past, do you think that changing my behavior now would reverse that?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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