Story Time. An example of what happens to men that have been lied to

[BackInTheGame78]

All good. Just for some clarification, and I failed to mention this before, but this friend has told me a while back that he trusts his judgement based on how many women hes been with. And I have found a lot of guys think they're experts bc they got plenty of play but end up making some detrimental and totally avoidable mistakes because there is obviously way more that comes with finding someone rather than just sex. Its just way easier to think that you can have fun and settle down when you're ready but it's just not so simple like it seems on paper. And that mindset is a great way to potentially dig yourself into a deep rabbit hole. And i feel like plenty of younger men or late bloomers that are focused on getting as many bodies as possible need to hear this.

It sounds like he is great at getting laid and having women be interested but not in the part that comes after that.

Also, doesn't sound like he is particularly good at screening woman and making decisions on what they qualify for from him.

Just because a woman is great in bed, doesn't make them great to be in a relationship with.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I will die on the hill that I would rather be a divorced bachelor male than a bachelor male who has never been married/in a real LTR his whole life. Once you figure out the system, getting laid is really easy to do. LTRs actually require working on your flaws and other uncomfortable truths.