amnbyrd
Don Juan
So you think I still have a chance even after what she said to my friend?? I mean shes pretty much cut me off completely
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Story from Last Night
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Update: So its Friday afternoon and out of nowhere after no contact since Monday she calls me and asks me to go to the movies with her. Im actually waiting while she gets ready right now. I dont get her as this kinda make her hard for me to read-I mean she didnt return my calls Tuesday and out of nowhere she wants to do something?? Wtf?
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
amnbyrd, quit being a pvssy! Just enjoy it, for God's sake!
Dude, she called you , and asked YOU out!
Dude, stop whining!
Stop with the neediness and validation!
Sheesh...
Now you're whining :
"Boo hoo! But am I really special to her??!! I hope she doesn't think of me as some piece of meat! Because I'm not that kind of girl!!
Yeah! I said "Girl"! Because only GIRLS say sh*t like that!
Don't make nme go out there and slap you!
Stop acting like a pvsyy and act like a MAN , Goddamnit!
Are you a Man?
Show her why she made the right choice with you, brother!
Show her who's the Man around there!!!!
Go get her!
Dude, she called you , and asked YOU out!
Dude, stop whining!
Stop with the neediness and validation!
Sheesh...
Now you're whining :
"Boo hoo! But am I really special to her??!! I hope she doesn't think of me as some piece of meat! Because I'm not that kind of girl!!
Yeah! I said "Girl"! Because only GIRLS say sh*t like that!
Don't make nme go out there and slap you!
Stop acting like a pvsyy and act like a MAN , Goddamnit!
Are you a Man?
Show her why she made the right choice with you, brother!
Show her who's the Man around there!!!!
Go get her!
Step 1: Stop worrying about what girl thinks about youamnbyrd said:Update: So its Friday afternoon and out of nowhere after no contact since Monday she calls me and asks me to go to the movies with her. Im actually waiting while she gets ready right now. I dont get her as this kinda make her hard for me to read-I mean she didnt return my calls Tuesday and out of nowhere she wants to do something?? Wtf?
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
Step 2: Go out to movie with girl
Step 3: Take girl to your room after movie
Step 4: Get in pants
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
lol
Alright guys, you're all right about this.
Now lets see what I can do
Alright guys, you're all right about this.
Now lets see what I can do
Seriously, all you need to do is relax and let things happen. Don't act like a sex-craved caveman, but also don't act like you're too big of a wimp to make a move on her. If you make a move on her and she turns you down, SO BE IT. At least you tried.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Im not at all worried about making a move on her-I mean sunday I had her on top of me on her bed and we made out and all. But she was on her period so she didnt want to have sex. Shes actually pretty open about sex and isnt afraid to talk about it with the guy friends. The only thing Im remotelt worried about is apparently she told my friend that I was too quiet and she didnt like quiet guys. I'll be fine though. Getting ready to leave I'll post with an update in a few hours if Im unlucky and sometime tomorrow if things go well
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Its almost 3am and she just left my room.
Movie went really well as she was all over me.
Then we got back to my room and we were both naked and about to fcuk. Then it went bad. First of all Ive only had sex with 3 girls but Ive never ever had a problem getting my sh!t in. At first she was on top and I tried to put it in but she said I have to be on top(like putting it in with her on top just wouldnt work). So we switched and we both tried to put it in. I dont know what the problem was but it wouldnt go in right. I mean she tried and I thought it was/and it looked like it was in a lil but I went to push and it wouldnt go in any further. She said stuff like "you have to do it, it wont hurt me" which got me thinking that maybe she was so tight that she meant for me to force it in. It got frustrating and she was about to cry. After awhile we pretty much gave up. Now a lot of ppl talk about this girl saying shes a slvt which I dont think is completely true. She wouldnt tell me what was wrong and she just said that I knew what was wrong. And she also told me not to tell our friends and that it was embarassing. Now I really have no clue as to what went wrong. I was thinking maybe I wasnt big enough for her to feel anything but it wouldve at least gone in more and felt "right". So now Im thinking maybe its that shes soo tight that its too hard to get in. She also said to call her tomorrow and that we'd work on it. Damn, I feel like a dumbass! Whats everyone thoughts on what the problem was??
Movie went really well as she was all over me.
Then we got back to my room and we were both naked and about to fcuk. Then it went bad. First of all Ive only had sex with 3 girls but Ive never ever had a problem getting my sh!t in. At first she was on top and I tried to put it in but she said I have to be on top(like putting it in with her on top just wouldnt work). So we switched and we both tried to put it in. I dont know what the problem was but it wouldnt go in right. I mean she tried and I thought it was/and it looked like it was in a lil but I went to push and it wouldnt go in any further. She said stuff like "you have to do it, it wont hurt me" which got me thinking that maybe she was so tight that she meant for me to force it in. It got frustrating and she was about to cry. After awhile we pretty much gave up. Now a lot of ppl talk about this girl saying shes a slvt which I dont think is completely true. She wouldnt tell me what was wrong and she just said that I knew what was wrong. And she also told me not to tell our friends and that it was embarassing. Now I really have no clue as to what went wrong. I was thinking maybe I wasnt big enough for her to feel anything but it wouldve at least gone in more and felt "right". So now Im thinking maybe its that shes soo tight that its too hard to get in. She also said to call her tomorrow and that we'd work on it. Damn, I feel like a dumbass! Whats everyone thoughts on what the problem was??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
yea I was hard and all but it didnt feel right. I mean when I thought it was in all the way/ as far as it would go I tried pushing but still couldnt feel anything and neither could she.
What are the chances that shes loose and Im too small that we couldnt feel anything?? Id say Im average btw(about 6 in)
Or is it most like that she was too tight?
What are the chances that shes loose and Im too small that we couldnt feel anything?? Id say Im average btw(about 6 in)
Or is it most like that she was too tight?
Well I'm assuming even if it was dark and maybe you guys drank some and you were wearing a condom you still would've felt something and she would've too. I'm guess you didn't have penetration into her vagina. You should've looked and felt with your hand to see where your c0ck was at lol. If you had an erection and pushed hard enough it would've got penetration and you both would've felt something. That's all I'm saying.
You said that the first time you two made out she was nervous and shy..right?Maybe imho the girl was nervous this time also.Sometimes it happens that the girl might want to have sex with you,but she's feeling nervous and so her body response would be not let you in.It's simple.
You could have tried other things and not try to force your way in.Could have used your tongue,or tell her sweet things,to let her relax and feel comfortable.Apparently that was sth holding her back from letting go and enjoying it.
You could have tried other things and not try to force your way in.Could have used your tongue,or tell her sweet things,to let her relax and feel comfortable.Apparently that was sth holding her back from letting go and enjoying it.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
çun said:
Yea in fact I think this may be a problem she has. I mean last night it took her forever to take her top and pants off. Though I eventually got her to. Im thinking thats why it took so long for her to get naked-she must have know there would be a problem.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Another UPDATE:
Just got word from one of her friends that she said my penis wouldnt fit. What a relief! I was worried i was too small or some sh!t. lol
ANyways how do I make this work now?? Ive never had this problem before.
Just got word from one of her friends that she said my penis wouldnt fit. What a relief! I was worried i was too small or some sh!t. lol
ANyways how do I make this work now?? Ive never had this problem before.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
So just force it in pretty much??
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's wet enough. If she's dry there is no way it's going in. Get some lube just to be safe.
Dude, it's time to sack up and represent our country in a way that is respectful to you and to all of us. I sincerely appreciate you doing your part to protect the US, but I tell ya, you gotta start being a man. Part of that is not getting so attached to some bad-rep girl that is walking all over you. I have been there, as have most of us. It's our innate drive to get some that makes idiots of us all. Play it cool and don't lose your pride over this chick. If it works out, great. If It doesn't, you move on and find a better one. As soon as the women see you are really a man, they will be all over you. And lucky for you, everything you need to learn is in the website. Good luck and thanks again for your service.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Alright, thanks for all the input guys.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.