amnbyrd
Don Juan
So you think I still have a chance even after what she said to my friend?? I mean shes pretty much cut me off completely
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Story from Last Night
- Thread starter amnbyrd
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Update: So its Friday afternoon and out of nowhere after no contact since Monday she calls me and asks me to go to the movies with her. Im actually waiting while she gets ready right now. I dont get her as this kinda make her hard for me to read-I mean she didnt return my calls Tuesday and out of nowhere she wants to do something?? Wtf?
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
amnbyrd, quit being a pvssy! Just enjoy it, for God's sake!
Dude, she called you , and asked YOU out!
Dude, stop whining!
Stop with the neediness and validation!
Sheesh...
Now you're whining :
"Boo hoo! But am I really special to her??!! I hope she doesn't think of me as some piece of meat! Because I'm not that kind of girl!!
Yeah! I said "Girl"! Because only GIRLS say sh*t like that!
Don't make nme go out there and slap you!
Stop acting like a pvsyy and act like a MAN , Goddamnit!
Are you a Man?
Show her why she made the right choice with you, brother!
Show her who's the Man around there!!!!
Go get her!
Dude, she called you , and asked YOU out!
Dude, stop whining!
Stop with the neediness and validation!
Sheesh...
Now you're whining :
"Boo hoo! But am I really special to her??!! I hope she doesn't think of me as some piece of meat! Because I'm not that kind of girl!!
Yeah! I said "Girl"! Because only GIRLS say sh*t like that!
Don't make nme go out there and slap you!
Stop acting like a pvsyy and act like a MAN , Goddamnit!
Are you a Man?
Show her why she made the right choice with you, brother!
Show her who's the Man around there!!!!
Go get her!
Step 1: Stop worrying about what girl thinks about youamnbyrd said:Update: So its Friday afternoon and out of nowhere after no contact since Monday she calls me and asks me to go to the movies with her. Im actually waiting while she gets ready right now. I dont get her as this kinda make her hard for me to read-I mean she didnt return my calls Tuesday and out of nowhere she wants to do something?? Wtf?
I hope she didnt just ask me cuz she didnt have anyone else to go with oor some bs like that.
Step 2: Go out to movie with girl
Step 3: Take girl to your room after movie
Step 4: Get in pants
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
lol
Alright guys, you're all right about this.
Now lets see what I can do
Alright guys, you're all right about this.
Now lets see what I can do
Seriously, all you need to do is relax and let things happen. Don't act like a sex-craved caveman, but also don't act like you're too big of a wimp to make a move on her. If you make a move on her and she turns you down, SO BE IT. At least you tried.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Im not at all worried about making a move on her-I mean sunday I had her on top of me on her bed and we made out and all. But she was on her period so she didnt want to have sex. Shes actually pretty open about sex and isnt afraid to talk about it with the guy friends. The only thing Im remotelt worried about is apparently she told my friend that I was too quiet and she didnt like quiet guys. I'll be fine though. Getting ready to leave I'll post with an update in a few hours if Im unlucky and sometime tomorrow if things go well
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Its almost 3am and she just left my room.
Movie went really well as she was all over me.
Then we got back to my room and we were both naked and about to fcuk. Then it went bad. First of all Ive only had sex with 3 girls but Ive never ever had a problem getting my sh!t in. At first she was on top and I tried to put it in but she said I have to be on top(like putting it in with her on top just wouldnt work). So we switched and we both tried to put it in. I dont know what the problem was but it wouldnt go in right. I mean she tried and I thought it was/and it looked like it was in a lil but I went to push and it wouldnt go in any further. She said stuff like "you have to do it, it wont hurt me" which got me thinking that maybe she was so tight that she meant for me to force it in. It got frustrating and she was about to cry. After awhile we pretty much gave up. Now a lot of ppl talk about this girl saying shes a slvt which I dont think is completely true. She wouldnt tell me what was wrong and she just said that I knew what was wrong. And she also told me not to tell our friends and that it was embarassing. Now I really have no clue as to what went wrong. I was thinking maybe I wasnt big enough for her to feel anything but it wouldve at least gone in more and felt "right". So now Im thinking maybe its that shes soo tight that its too hard to get in. She also said to call her tomorrow and that we'd work on it. Damn, I feel like a dumbass! Whats everyone thoughts on what the problem was??
Movie went really well as she was all over me.
Then we got back to my room and we were both naked and about to fcuk. Then it went bad. First of all Ive only had sex with 3 girls but Ive never ever had a problem getting my sh!t in. At first she was on top and I tried to put it in but she said I have to be on top(like putting it in with her on top just wouldnt work). So we switched and we both tried to put it in. I dont know what the problem was but it wouldnt go in right. I mean she tried and I thought it was/and it looked like it was in a lil but I went to push and it wouldnt go in any further. She said stuff like "you have to do it, it wont hurt me" which got me thinking that maybe she was so tight that she meant for me to force it in. It got frustrating and she was about to cry. After awhile we pretty much gave up. Now a lot of ppl talk about this girl saying shes a slvt which I dont think is completely true. She wouldnt tell me what was wrong and she just said that I knew what was wrong. And she also told me not to tell our friends and that it was embarassing. Now I really have no clue as to what went wrong. I was thinking maybe I wasnt big enough for her to feel anything but it wouldve at least gone in more and felt "right". So now Im thinking maybe its that shes soo tight that its too hard to get in. She also said to call her tomorrow and that we'd work on it. Damn, I feel like a dumbass! Whats everyone thoughts on what the problem was??
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
yea I was hard and all but it didnt feel right. I mean when I thought it was in all the way/ as far as it would go I tried pushing but still couldnt feel anything and neither could she.
What are the chances that shes loose and Im too small that we couldnt feel anything?? Id say Im average btw(about 6 in)
Or is it most like that she was too tight?
What are the chances that shes loose and Im too small that we couldnt feel anything?? Id say Im average btw(about 6 in)
Or is it most like that she was too tight?
Well I'm assuming even if it was dark and maybe you guys drank some and you were wearing a condom you still would've felt something and she would've too. I'm guess you didn't have penetration into her vagina. You should've looked and felt with your hand to see where your c0ck was at lol. If you had an erection and pushed hard enough it would've got penetration and you both would've felt something. That's all I'm saying.
You said that the first time you two made out she was nervous and shy..right?Maybe imho the girl was nervous this time also.Sometimes it happens that the girl might want to have sex with you,but she's feeling nervous and so her body response would be not let you in.It's simple.
You could have tried other things and not try to force your way in.Could have used your tongue,or tell her sweet things,to let her relax and feel comfortable.Apparently that was sth holding her back from letting go and enjoying it.
You could have tried other things and not try to force your way in.Could have used your tongue,or tell her sweet things,to let her relax and feel comfortable.Apparently that was sth holding her back from letting go and enjoying it.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
çun said:
Yea in fact I think this may be a problem she has. I mean last night it took her forever to take her top and pants off. Though I eventually got her to. Im thinking thats why it took so long for her to get naked-she must have know there would be a problem.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Another UPDATE:
Just got word from one of her friends that she said my penis wouldnt fit. What a relief! I was worried i was too small or some sh!t. lol
ANyways how do I make this work now?? Ive never had this problem before.
Just got word from one of her friends that she said my penis wouldnt fit. What a relief! I was worried i was too small or some sh!t. lol
ANyways how do I make this work now?? Ive never had this problem before.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
So just force it in pretty much??
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Make sure she's wet enough. If she's dry there is no way it's going in. Get some lube just to be safe.
Dude, it's time to sack up and represent our country in a way that is respectful to you and to all of us. I sincerely appreciate you doing your part to protect the US, but I tell ya, you gotta start being a man. Part of that is not getting so attached to some bad-rep girl that is walking all over you. I have been there, as have most of us. It's our innate drive to get some that makes idiots of us all. Play it cool and don't lose your pride over this chick. If it works out, great. If It doesn't, you move on and find a better one. As soon as the women see you are really a man, they will be all over you. And lucky for you, everything you need to learn is in the website. Good luck and thanks again for your service.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Alright, thanks for all the input guys.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.