"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stories about dating weird chicks.

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Hey, a response I just made to the "What's the weirdest reason you ever got dumped" forum got me thinking. This chck I dated a long time ago was really weird. Broke up with me because she said," God wants me to spend more time with him". She didn't have a sense of humor, she was being serious. I just laughed about it after getting off the phone, and went and met someone new. She'd also have this tick where she'd just sit and stop in the middle of a sentence and stare off into space, then say God was talking to her. Anyway, any of you other guys dated a chick you thought was cool, only to find out later that she was really weird?:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My close friend dated a mental artsy chick. Without medication she would roll her eyes and say crazy schit. Ironically, while ON medication she'd become a complete wacko. After some desperate actions from her side my friend dropped her. Although, he said he got the best sex ever from this chick.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
My close friend dated a mental artsy chick. Without medication she would roll her eyes and say crazy schit. Ironically, while ON medication she'd become a complete wacko. After some desperate actions from her side my friend dropped her. Although, he said he got the best sex ever from this chick.
Crazy chick= Crazy sex. This is true.
 

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I used to date this hoe who would cut herself when she got pissed at me. :eek:
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
I used to date this hoe who would cut herself when she got pissed at me. :eek:
Now that's just freaky. Ah, but was the sex freaky...lol:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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went on one date with a chic, then she asked me to drive from michigan to arizona with her, so she could visit her mom (I said no)
 
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