Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stoping Oneitits

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hondo928

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I have this problem and I think I'm developing oneitis for this HB8, I could totally get her, but she has oneitits for some guy who has a gf, yea interesting, She's a friends friend and I just want to stop oneitits before I get it. Any thoughts on the mental state to put myself in? or how to DJ when the HB has oneitits for another guy. Either or or both would be of help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there are 4 billion chicks on this planet and you are focusing all your attention on 1 chick? LOL

get more options!
 
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x2, always have more than one girl on the go, its working like a charm for me.
 
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Oneitis, Addiction, Obession

Same root cause.

If you have an addictive personality, find something else to be obsessed about. And only that something else.

The more productive, and useful the something else, the better.


Example: Running a business well. Being the best at bowling.
 
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