"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stoping Oneitits

hondo928

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I have this problem and I think I'm developing oneitis for this HB8, I could totally get her, but she has oneitits for some guy who has a gf, yea interesting, She's a friends friend and I just want to stop oneitits before I get it. Any thoughts on the mental state to put myself in? or how to DJ when the HB has oneitits for another guy. Either or or both would be of help.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

J Roc

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there are 4 billion chicks on this planet and you are focusing all your attention on 1 chick? LOL

get more options!
 

mtlwlu

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x2, always have more than one girl on the go, its working like a charm for me.
 

Alle_Gory

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Oneitis, Addiction, Obession

Same root cause.

If you have an addictive personality, find something else to be obsessed about. And only that something else.

The more productive, and useful the something else, the better.


Example: Running a business well. Being the best at bowling.
 
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