"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stoping Oneitits

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I have this problem and I think I'm developing oneitis for this HB8, I could totally get her, but she has oneitits for some guy who has a gf, yea interesting, She's a friends friend and I just want to stop oneitits before I get it. Any thoughts on the mental state to put myself in? or how to DJ when the HB has oneitits for another guy. Either or or both would be of help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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there are 4 billion chicks on this planet and you are focusing all your attention on 1 chick? LOL

get more options!
 
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x2, always have more than one girl on the go, its working like a charm for me.
 
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Oneitis, Addiction, Obession

Same root cause.

If you have an addictive personality, find something else to be obsessed about. And only that something else.

The more productive, and useful the something else, the better.


Example: Running a business well. Being the best at bowling.
 
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