Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stoping Oneitits

hondo928

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I have this problem and I think I'm developing oneitis for this HB8, I could totally get her, but she has oneitits for some guy who has a gf, yea interesting, She's a friends friend and I just want to stop oneitits before I get it. Any thoughts on the mental state to put myself in? or how to DJ when the HB has oneitits for another guy. Either or or both would be of help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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J Roc

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there are 4 billion chicks on this planet and you are focusing all your attention on 1 chick? LOL

get more options!
 

mtlwlu

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x2, always have more than one girl on the go, its working like a charm for me.
 

Alle_Gory

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Oneitis, Addiction, Obession

Same root cause.

If you have an addictive personality, find something else to be obsessed about. And only that something else.

The more productive, and useful the something else, the better.


Example: Running a business well. Being the best at bowling.
 
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