"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

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Some of you guys come on here to improve your game and thats awsome. But you can't rely on this site to get you girls if you don't try!!!! You have the knowlegde, so make an effort and use it. IF YOU DON'T USE YOUR SKILL, YOUR JUST WASTING YOUR TIME ON HERE AND YOUR BRAIN POWER!!!

Don't wait for you to eventually come out of your shell, so to speak. This will take a long time, even years. You will regret this if you wait.

So PUSH YOURSELF and appoarch one girl. You could do this at a mall where no one knows you. JUST ASK ,THE HOTTIE THAT YOU'VE BEEN TRYING TO HIT, "What was our homework for history?" I mean its not that hard. She can't be mad at you for "hitting" on her (if thats what your afraid of). I mean you just asked her a question like a normal human being.

Make it happen, Don Juan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I must agree, if your not on here to and apply what you've learned as a DJ, then your time has been wasted. The women aren't just going to walk to you. As the male we have to be the aggressor and initiate things. :cool:
 
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Re: Re: Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

Originally posted by Mctwist4
Not a bad post. I have yet to see one field report from you though. You better be following your own advice and not just posting it.
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Agreed...............I sense a little desperation in whyshy
 
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This post been copied so many times before its not even a bit funny. Four words"Get off your ass!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by whyshy
Alright haters, thanks for the compliments.
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Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
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Couldnt said it better myself.
 
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wow there are some haters on this man, nice post though zacomo
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
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OR to help others
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ive been on this site for a year now and I havent approached a single girl. I havent even talked to a freaking girl. I like this thread.
 
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Its about time you do buddy.

Grab your balls (literaly) and walk up to her. You'll get a reaction.
 
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i wanna go approach a girl but like we see each other every day. should i just start hitting on her.. no regrets, hell yeh thats the first thing im doing tomorrow. we were never really friends, the worst thing will be not trying thnx yll ur an inspiration. i dont care about rejection anymore except that i gotta "grab my balls" and just do it. thnx again
 
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bump what....this is older than dirt
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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