"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

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Some of you guys come on here to improve your game and thats awsome. But you can't rely on this site to get you girls if you don't try!!!! You have the knowlegde, so make an effort and use it. IF YOU DON'T USE YOUR SKILL, YOUR JUST WASTING YOUR TIME ON HERE AND YOUR BRAIN POWER!!!

Don't wait for you to eventually come out of your shell, so to speak. This will take a long time, even years. You will regret this if you wait.

So PUSH YOURSELF and appoarch one girl. You could do this at a mall where no one knows you. JUST ASK ,THE HOTTIE THAT YOU'VE BEEN TRYING TO HIT, "What was our homework for history?" I mean its not that hard. She can't be mad at you for "hitting" on her (if thats what your afraid of). I mean you just asked her a question like a normal human being.

Make it happen, Don Juan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I must agree, if your not on here to and apply what you've learned as a DJ, then your time has been wasted. The women aren't just going to walk to you. As the male we have to be the aggressor and initiate things. :cool:
 

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Re: Re: Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

Originally posted by Mctwist4
Not a bad post. I have yet to see one field report from you though. You better be following your own advice and not just posting it.
Agreed...............I sense a little desperation in whyshy
 
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This post been copied so many times before its not even a bit funny. Four words"Get off your ass!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by whyshy
Alright haters, thanks for the compliments.
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
Couldnt said it better myself.
 

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wow there are some haters on this man, nice post though zacomo
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
OR to help others
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ive been on this site for a year now and I havent approached a single girl. I havent even talked to a freaking girl. I like this thread.
 

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Its about time you do buddy.

Grab your balls (literaly) and walk up to her. You'll get a reaction.
 

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i wanna go approach a girl but like we see each other every day. should i just start hitting on her.. no regrets, hell yeh thats the first thing im doing tomorrow. we were never really friends, the worst thing will be not trying thnx yll ur an inspiration. i dont care about rejection anymore except that i gotta "grab my balls" and just do it. thnx again
 

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bump what....this is older than dirt
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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