"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

Anomalous

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Some of you guys come on here to improve your game and thats awsome. But you can't rely on this site to get you girls if you don't try!!!! You have the knowlegde, so make an effort and use it. IF YOU DON'T USE YOUR SKILL, YOUR JUST WASTING YOUR TIME ON HERE AND YOUR BRAIN POWER!!!

Don't wait for you to eventually come out of your shell, so to speak. This will take a long time, even years. You will regret this if you wait.

So PUSH YOURSELF and appoarch one girl. You could do this at a mall where no one knows you. JUST ASK ,THE HOTTIE THAT YOU'VE BEEN TRYING TO HIT, "What was our homework for history?" I mean its not that hard. She can't be mad at you for "hitting" on her (if thats what your afraid of). I mean you just asked her a question like a normal human being.

Make it happen, Don Juan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I must agree, if your not on here to and apply what you've learned as a DJ, then your time has been wasted. The women aren't just going to walk to you. As the male we have to be the aggressor and initiate things. :cool:
 

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Re: Re: Stop waiting and start DJ'ing!!!

Originally posted by Mctwist4
Not a bad post. I have yet to see one field report from you though. You better be following your own advice and not just posting it.
Agreed...............I sense a little desperation in whyshy
 
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This post been copied so many times before its not even a bit funny. Four words"Get off your ass!"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by whyshy
Alright haters, thanks for the compliments.
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
Couldnt said it better myself.
 

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wow there are some haters on this man, nice post though zacomo
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Wirting a post isnt for self gratification, or for "compliments" its to share an Idea that has helped you.
OR to help others
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ive been on this site for a year now and I havent approached a single girl. I havent even talked to a freaking girl. I like this thread.
 

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Its about time you do buddy.

Grab your balls (literaly) and walk up to her. You'll get a reaction.
 

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i wanna go approach a girl but like we see each other every day. should i just start hitting on her.. no regrets, hell yeh thats the first thing im doing tomorrow. we were never really friends, the worst thing will be not trying thnx yll ur an inspiration. i dont care about rejection anymore except that i gotta "grab my balls" and just do it. thnx again
 

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bump what....this is older than dirt
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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