"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stop texting

arlanda

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It's a bad idea to use txts early.

The thing is I also prefer texts but they may get wrong idea that calling them is a problem for me.

Grab your balls and make the ****ing phone call, dude ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I never text, IM, or email chicks and when I call the conversation isn't going to last more than 5 minutes because I have better things to do.
 

frivolousz21

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I never text, IM, or email chicks and when I call the conversation isn't going to last more than 5 minutes because I have better things to do.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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what's so funny about that post? It may be extreme, but it won't backfire.
 

frivolousz21

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better things to do?

LIKE what?

climb rocks? sky dive? build model cars????

run, lift weights, play sports, study?

lol I mean hell I hate conversing with women too!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Jariel
I don't agree at all. Many of my girlfriends, dates and casual flings came about via texting. I've even built good rapport and intimacy via text conversations too and transformed acquaintances into friends and into lovers. Same thing goes for emails and IMs.

Besides, I prefer text messages over phonecalls as I can pick them up and reply at a convenient time without being disturbed. I'm sure many girls feel the same way.

Personally, I'm a big advocate of text messaging and I've experienced enough success to know it works for me.
What he said.
 

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Originally posted by Broham
Stop texting. Texting was invented for women as another vehicle to babble about shopping, men and pop culture. You are just another one of her girlfriends if you text her, the same label cast upon you if you wore a pink shirt.
hey man I got a girls number at a party then texted her a few days later to meet up. We met up then she gave me a BJ. Thank you for the great tip though! now I won't let sh1t like that happen!
 

Jariel

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I'm wondering, has anyone got any real life examples they can share where texting has caused them problems with women?
 

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Re: Re: Stop texting

Originally posted by quest
stop being a virgin.

Tonight I'm going to see a girl whose parents are out of town who calls me "pinky" because when she met me I was in a pink shirt, and we set up the date by text.

I'll be getting laid tonight. what will you be doing?

-none of this is a lie. its just perfect timing.
timing wasn't so perfect.

she had her period. still had a good time for a wednesday night :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Jariel
I'm wondering, has anyone got any real life examples they can share where texting has caused them problems with women?
if ur texting a girl with a boyfriend.... she leaves the message in the phone.. that'd be trouble.
hasn't happened to me, i don't mess with girls like that..
 

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Originally posted by Broham
Stop texting. Texting was invented for women as another vehicle to babble about shopping, men and pop culture. You are just another one of her girlfriends if you text her, the same label cast upon you if you wore a pink shirt.
KEYBOARD JOCKEY THEORY
 

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me and a friend are eyeing the same girl.
i'm falling behind him since he makes better text messages than me.

anyone here who can help on my texting?
 

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Originally posted by Lhemmix
me and a friend are eyeing the same girl.
i'm falling behind him since he makes better text messages than me.

anyone here who can help on my texting?
Why not just stop texting and ask the girl on a damn date or something god damn guys.

Since when do men have to rely on who the better 'text messager' is to get a chick?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Lhemmix
me and a friend are eyeing the same girl.
i'm falling behind him since he makes better text messages than me.

anyone here who can help on my texting?

why are u even in that situation?
he's your friend.
let him have her, go meet a different girl.
 

Q-Pid

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Originally posted by Lhemmix
me and a friend are eyeing the same girl.
i'm falling behind him since he makes better text messages than me.

anyone here who can help on my texting?
Drop the vowels man
Drop 'em like they're Hawt!
 
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