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Don Juan
I tried to stop but this morning (3 days later) had a wet dream. Could someone please advise me on how to stop these?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Stop masturbating
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The whole abstaining thing only works for guys with a low sex drive, because it takes them longer to recharge to full force.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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Not doing it seems to increase my drive. I like the "Life Force" analogy. Thats kind of what it feels like.
Being 17 my sex drive seems to get in the way of me concentrating. "If X-Y=2 then damn that's some fine ass. Dammit concentrate. Boobies." Even once a say doesn't seem to lower my drive and leave my feeling sluggish etc.
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Don Juan
San Jose California said:
Thank you, so far you've been right.
But now I'm super horny all the time.
Just looking at a girl is enough to get me up now and it's gotten to the point where I have to intentionally not think about her to avoid an embarrassing erection.
It's only been 3 days since I last ejaculated!
Other guys on here have said the feeling of power and control kicks in after about 14 days. I really want to experience that but I don't think it's going to work for me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm going to see how long I can go without masturbating.