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Don Juan
I tried to stop but this morning (3 days later) had a wet dream. Could someone please advise me on how to stop these?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Stop masturbating
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The whole abstaining thing only works for guys with a low sex drive, because it takes them longer to recharge to full force.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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Not doing it seems to increase my drive. I like the "Life Force" analogy. Thats kind of what it feels like.
Being 17 my sex drive seems to get in the way of me concentrating. "If X-Y=2 then damn that's some fine ass. Dammit concentrate. Boobies." Even once a say doesn't seem to lower my drive and leave my feeling sluggish etc.
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Don Juan
San Jose California said:
Thank you, so far you've been right.
But now I'm super horny all the time.
Just looking at a girl is enough to get me up now and it's gotten to the point where I have to intentionally not think about her to avoid an embarrassing erection.
It's only been 3 days since I last ejaculated!
Other guys on here have said the feeling of power and control kicks in after about 14 days. I really want to experience that but I don't think it's going to work for me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm going to see how long I can go without masturbating.